Thaina Cordero, MS

Clinical Sexology, PhD Candidate

I specialize in topics related to relationships, sexuality, emotions, communication, and changing behaviors. I support clients who want to understand themselves and why they do the things they do, strengthen their relationships, communicate better, manage their emotions, create or break habits, and/or have more pleasure in their sex life. Whether your goals are relational or personal, I am here to support you!

Many of my clients present with a variety of concerns related to sexual desire, erectile issues, kink/BDSM exploration, difficulties reaching orgasm, pain during sexual encounters, and out-of-control sexual behavior (sex addiction or porn addiction) and more!

I’ve worked with clients from all paths of life. I know it may be hard to share your struggles with others. We will always go at your pace! My role is to hold space for you to feel it is safe to explore all aspects of your life, history, and yourself. I’m sex positive, LGBTQ+ affirming, and welcome neurodiversity. I am bilingual (Spanish/English).

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Specializations:

Credentials & Experience:

Intimacy & Relationships
Sexual Difficulties
Emotional Regulation

Bilingual (English/Spanish)

Thaina sees clients aged 18 and above.

Ph.D. in Clinical Sexology at Modern Sex Therapy Institute
(in progress)
Master of Science in Educational Psychology
Bachelor of Arts in Psychology
Gottman Method for Couples Therapy - Levels 1 & 2
Certified in Somatic Psychotherapy & Practices
Certified Trauma Professional
500-hours Yoga Teacher

Specializations:

Communication Issues: Thaina Cordero specializes in helping individuals improve their communication skills. By providing a safe and non-judgmental space, she supports clients in expressing themselves effectively, resolving conflicts, and fostering healthier and more fulfilling relationships.

Sexual Difficulties: Thaina Cordero has expertise in addressing sexual difficulties. She creates a supportive environment where individuals can explore and address concerns related to their sexual health and intimacy. Thaina assists clients in overcoming challenges and developing a positive and fulfilling sexual life.

Chronic Pain and Illness: Thaina Cordero understands the impact of chronic pain and illness on mental well-being. She specializes in supporting individuals who are coping with these conditions, helping them manage emotional struggles, develop coping strategies, and improve their overall quality of life.

Emotional Regulation: Thaina Cordero assists clients in developing emotional self-awareness and regulation techniques. By exploring and understanding their emotions, individuals can learn to navigate intense feelings more effectively, leading to increased emotional well-being and resilience.

Sexual Exploration: Thaina Cordero provides a safe and non-judgmental space for individuals to explore their sexuality. She supports clients in understanding and embracing their sexual desires, promoting self-discovery, empowerment, and a positive relationship with their own sexuality.

Consensual Non-Monogamy: Thaina Cordero specializes in working with individuals and couples who practice consensual non-monogamy. She helps clients navigate the unique dynamics and challenges of open relationships, providing guidance and support to foster healthy communication, boundaries, and emotional well-being.

Modalities:

Somatic Approach: Thaina Cordero integrates somatic therapy techniques into her practice. By focusing on the mind-body connection, she helps clients heal and promote overall well-being, recognizing the importance of the body in processing and releasing emotional experiences.

Attachment-Based Approach: Thaina Cordero draws from attachment theory to help clients explore their attachment patterns and develop healthier, more secure relationships. By understanding the dynamics of attachment, clients can improve their interpersonal connections and create more fulfilling relationships.

Affective Neuroscience: Thaina Cordero incorporates insights from affective neuroscience to help clients understand the neurobiological basis of emotions. By integrating this knowledge, she assists clients in developing strategies for emotional regulation, resilience, and overall mental well-being

Clinical Sexology FAQs

What is the difference between you and a therapist?

Therapist have specific requirements and guidelines based on the states where they practice. Under the oversight of federal and state ethical and legal boards, they provide mental health assessments and treatment for a range of psychiatric conditions, encompassing depression, anxiety, obsessive-compulsive disorder, as well as trauma and Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD). I practice ethically within my field, yet there is no legal oversight. There is no stand-alone licensure for Clinical Sexology. Choosing between a general mental health counselor, a sex therapist, or to work with me, really depends on your reasons to seek service.

Do you take insurance?

No, I do not take insurance and my services are not eligible for out-of-network reimbursement.

Can you help me with…?

One of the most difficult part is finding someone who you’re confident in their ability to support you in whatever you’re going through. The answer to this question is very nuanced and the best way to find out may be to have an initial session or a quick phone consultation.

Can I talk about…?

The most likely answer is: Yes! This is a time and space for you (and/or your relationship). I start most first-time sessions with: Where would you like to start today? You pick the pace, the goals, the topics…

How often should we meet?

The frequency is up to you! You might want to consider practical things (such as budget, schedule, motivations. and goals) and your own personality (how detailed are you when telling a story, how often you want to have potentially ‘hard’ conversations, etcetera).